Increasing the temp is easy, take off the covers and move the setting up a little.----10-20 F. Make sure that the top one is slightly above the bottom one. Are you comfortable working near exposed electrical parts? If not then turn off the breaker before you start...
Pressure regulator,,,, hummmmm better find out why it is installed. My last house had plastic pipe and I could not run more than 40 PSI though the lines. Sure made the shower weak, even with the flow resitricter removed.