Bathroom Ceiling Peeling After Painting With Latex Paint

I have a bathroom ceiling that I painted with latex paint a few years back. It is now pealing. What's the best way to prepare the surface for a smooth coat of new oil based paint? A sander seems to leave a less than desired smooth surface and chemicals on the drywall ceiling don't seem to be the answer either. Thanks very much for helping a newbie like myself.

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