After all the effort to get the weight exactly the same on all the blades and the fan is still out of balance. Do this simple test. Run the fan at low, medium, and high speed. Does the balance get worse with higher speed? I thought so ;-)
Now, fix the real problem. The pitch of each blade must be identical! The pitch is the angle of twist from the leading edge to the trailing edge of the blade. Most blades are mounted with an "H" shaped bracket and can be adjusted by slightly twisting the bracket at the short section between the two outside bars of the H.
You can use the reflection of a light bulb off the flat of the top or bottom of the mounted blades to adjust the twist so the bulb appears at exactly the same place on all the blades as you hand rotate them. I can almost tell you, only one of the blades will be off when you do the first reflection test. Tweak it back into position and your fan will run true at any speed.
I spent 4 hours moving quarters, nickels, and dimes, swapping brackets, blades (yes, weighing was the first thing I tried-they were identical) and it ran so well, until I switched to medium speed ;-) I spotted that the reflection of a nearby lamp on the blade surfaces "wobbled" as I turned the blades. It's the pitch! One blade was really "off". In a few minutes I had the same lamp reflection on all the blades. Fan then ran smooth and quiet at all speeds.
It is very easy for a blade to get hit and the bracket twisted.
-larry / dallas