-> I suppose this has been going on long enough and I need some
-> type of solution for this.
->
-> I know that I am a bit of a slob when it comes to stuff that is
-> lying around. It has been in the same position for years as
-> far as paper that has been sitting in one place and such items.
->
-> I know that I have some type of deep seeded atituted when
-> it comes to cleaning and picking up anything.
->
-> Can any one tell me why this happens?
->
-> I know that in the past, my mother would litterally scream
-> her lungs out to get me to do anything. This has caused me
-> to become numb to picking stuff up and cleaning in general.
->
-> Are there any solutions for this Attitude?
->
-> Thank for any advice.
I have the same problem for the same reason. My mom used to yell at me to get me to clean up my room and help clean up the house. Now I absolutely hate housework.
The only things I've found that help are (1) to have someone to live with. I'm respectful of their right not to live in a mess, so I clean up more than I do when I live alone. And (2) invite people over on a regular basis (as someone suggested) so that you're motivated to clean up.
I also clean thoroughly whenever family comes for a visit, since they will be all over the house, using the shower, etc.
I suppose therapy would help, but that costs money, usually.